Supporting children’s behaviour isn’t about stopping actions it’s about guiding them with the right language.
 
This simple, printable A4 resource provides clear, consistent phrases to use in everyday situations, helping practitioners respond calmly and effectively to common behaviours such as snatching, hitting, and big emotions.
 
Designed for busy early years environments, this cheat sheet offers practical “say instead” alternatives that can be used immediately within the room, supporting both children’s emotional development and staff confidence.
 
Includes:
Simple, consistent language for common behaviours
Positive phrasing to support co-regulation
A clear, easy-to-use A4 format for staff rooms or learning spaces
 
A small shift in language can make a big difference  creating calmer environments, stronger relationships, and more consistent behaviour support across your setting.